When you’re in a long-term relationship, it’s easy to assume the grass is greener on the other side. (You know, the side where all your single friends are out swiping right and meeting new, fascinating people every weekend?)
Stop thinking that. (And while you’re at it, ask your friends to share their Tinder horror stories.)
“When we’re in a relationship but continuously with one foot out and continuously thinking about how the outside world is more tempting and more interesting, it’s actually not a good recipe for investing in a relationship,” he says, “It’s not a zero-sum game; [a relationship] gets better when you invest in it.”
Watch the clip above to hear more of Ariely’s advice on modern love and relationships.